Special Edition for ERA Enterprise When the Party Is Over

by DrFaye


Early voting is underway. Yard signs are rising. Opinions are firm. Conversations are sharper.
But I want to ask something deeper than politics.
When the party is over… who are we?
We already know how to live in harmony.
We serve in civic organizations together, planning events that strengthen our town. We sit at the same tables solving problems, fundraising and celebrating progress. There is cooperation there. There is respect there.
We eat in the same restaurants and greet one another warmly.
We shop in the same stores and support the same small businesses.
We sit in the same bleachers cheering for our students in athletics.
We bow our heads in the same churches, praying for our families, our leaders, and our future.
Day after day, we prove we can coexist peacefully.
So why does harmony seem to evaporate when party affiliation enters the room?
I am not asking anyone to abandon their convictions. You have the right to vote your conscience. You have the right to align with the platform you believe serves best.
But before we are Democrats or Republicans, conservatives or liberals, we are human beings.
Created in the image of God.
Given dignity.
Entrusted with influence.
Called to serve in whatever role we occupy—public office, ministry, business, education, or community leadership.
Scripture reminds us plainly: “If you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another” (Galatians 5:15). These words are not party politics. They are about human behavior.
When we speak evil of another brother or sister, when we reduce someone to a stereotype, when we spread accusations without restraint, we are not merely attacking a viewpoint—we are wounding a person made by God.
We would never stand in the middle of a civic meeting and hurl insults at our neighbors. We would never disrupt a church service to slander someone sitting two pews away. We would never shout hatred across the aisle at a basketball game.
So why do we permit it when the topic becomes political?
The signs may go up—but our standards should not go down.
Debates may intensify—but dignity must remain.
It is time to put down the weapons of war—verbal, emotional, digital. It is time to remember that strength is not proven through cruelty. Conviction does not require contempt.
You can defend policy without destroying a person.
You can disagree without dehumanizing.
You can stand firm without becoming hostile.
One day soon, the ballots will be counted. The ads will end. The yard signs will come down.
When the party is over, we will still live next to each other.
We will still worship beside one another.
We will still serve this community together.
And history will not remember how loudly we argued—but how wisely we behaved.
The real test is not who wins the election.
The real test is whether our character survives it.
Let us be the people God has called us to be—steady, mature, compassionate, courageous. Not driven by outrage, but governed by principle. Not divided by party, but united by responsibility.
Because when the party is over and when the party is over-community remains.